While it may appear that every
second child is being diagnosed with ADHD (a topic for another day perhaps),
obtaining that diagnosis can offer a sense of relief. Of understanding why some tasks have been so
difficult. Of guilt for applying pressure and placing demands. Of hope for a better way forward.
Regardless of the treatment option
followed, there is an expectation that things will get better. Sometimes these expectations need to be
reined in a bit, but they are there nonetheless. Often there is some trial and error in
getting the treatment just right, and annoyingly once that is achieved
something else will crop up and an adjustment will again be required. At some point though, the (modified)
expectations will be met.
But what if they aren’t? What about those cases where every
conceivable recommendation has been followed and the school marks are still not
coming up? Colleagues and bosses are
still complaining that tasks are not completed satisfactorily. It is not an expectation that has been
overlooked, rather a history of experiences and habits.
In the case of school age children,
the treatment(s) will improve behaviours and concentration moving forward, but
there are potentially numerous skills that were missed which are now being
built upon. Even if full attention is
given to all classes now, there will be gaps which are likely to result in
confusion, not to mention a large amount of frustration at still not being able to succeed.
While the above can be applied to
adults in the workplace, there is often the added bad habits that crop up and
sabotage matters. As an example, being
organised is a skill we have to learn, one which those with ADHD find immensely
difficult. Just because the ADHD is now
being treated does not mean the skill of being organised miraculously happens.
There is an amount of remediation
required once treatment has begun. To
replace poor habits with good ones. To
consolidate partially learnt or missed skills which are now being built
upon. To change thought processes. This is as important as obtaining the
diagnosis and finding a suitable course of treatment, because if skipped, the
two previous steps may seem pointless.
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